#15-The Ideal Family
Everyone dreams about having the ideal family. Everyone is always happy, everyone is kind, and there are no problems. There definitely are some advantages to this “ideal” family, in that because everyone is always happy and kind, there is no arguing or fighting, and everything is good. In the “ideal” family, your parents will let you do what you want, and there are no consequences for your actions. Your parents will help you with your homework, and drive you wherever you want to go. Everyone gets along, and everyone helps each other.
Who doesn’t want that? Who doesn’t want to be loved and cared for? The “ideal” family sounds amazing, but even being “ideal” may not be all what you expect it to be.
Being in a disfunctional family is not fun and never easy, and you may long to live in “the family next door” or the “ideal” family. But, in the real world, no one lives the “ideal” family, There are flaws in every family; some we can deal with and others that can tear us apart. In my opinion, however, some good can come from that. We learn from our mistakes, and we can bond and grow closer to our family and friends through bad experiences. it makes us stronger and we can help others going through the same kind of thing, so it won’t be so difficult for them.
There are many different kinds of family, and each one is unique and important, so even though it may be hard, they are definitely worth the effort.




